It's that time to start looking forward and to start considering your goals and resolutions for the new year. We thought this would be a good opportunity for the team to share what they plan to achieve in 2019
Gunge So, this one's a small cheat, but not really. Yes, I got in the gunge pool at unSensored back in May, but that was more like a personal dare to myself. The experienced whet my appetite, though, and I'm curious to try out a full messy session. I think I'm definitely leaning more towards slime, but feel free to make suggestions on what's the best way to approach WAM play.
Furthering Diversity Representing people of all walks of life, all colours, shapes and sizes has been my mission pretty much since I started at Recon. We've made great strides, but I want to go further. There's no one way to do fetish and kink, and no two perverts are the same, so I want Recon to reflect an even wider range of experiences in 2019.
Try Suspension (with hooks, not rope) Working as a piercer for over 10 years meant I got to network and meet some amazing artists and body modification enthusiasts. I have talked with friends who frequently do suspension for years, and they all give various accounts on what if feels like physically and mentally to be suspended by hooks. It's been on the to do list for over 8 years. This year I want to bite the bullet and do it myself.
Whips My previous attempts at using a whip have been fair, but I know that a lot of those attempts have been down to sheer luck rather than any skill. I have a deep admiration for anyone who can skilfully use a bull whip, and for the person on the receiving end of it. This goal is a bit of a 2 for 1 deal. I'm going to first have a go and be on the receiving end of the whip, and then with practice get better and more confident in using a bull whip. This will also, by Christmas, be my go-to party trick.
Go to more events I go to my fair share of events, and it's easy to fall into the trap of going to events where you already know people who are going, or bigger events that are going to cater to most people on some level, but I want to push myself and go to smaller events and more social events. There is so many niche events, which I haven't made the time for and should. If anyone has suggestions on where they like to go- I've got a list and happy to add to it.
Bondage I'm still, STILL yet to be bound. Bondage is something that I never would have considered a few years ago. The fear of relinquishing control kept it at a distance. Now, that sensation holds appeal… Let's see if I can finally tie the knot in 2019!*
*I'm more interested in getting restrained than doing the restraining, but I phrased it this way for the sake of a mediocre pun.
Superhero play I've been a comic book reader since I was a kid, but it was only when I first tried on Lycra with my Recon cycle gear (you might have seen me in it – I've only worn it to nearly every Recon party for the past two years) that I developed a connection between superheroes, Lycra and sex. Possibly combined with a roleplay involving bondage and I've gone and killed two birds right there!
Red Look, it's no doubt going to happen sooner or later. Let's just keep a 'maybe' hanging over this one for now…
Take two fingers …does exactly what it says on the tin 😉
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